http://HowToSaveAMarriageFast.com The most successful couples are those who are able to take an objective look at their relationship, see what's wrong with it, and do something towards finding a solution to the problem or issue that is threatening the harmony of their marriage.
That's right; they aren't just stabbing in the dark, guessing what is wrong with their relationships. They aren't spending day after agonizing day fighting over seemingly insignificant incidents and actions.
So what does this mean for you and your relationship?
Next time you have a fight with your spouse over something, consider the deeper underlying issue. Remove yourself from within the argument, as if you are a stranger looking in. Sometimes others looking in can see something that should be obvious to us. See if you can identify a pattern or an issue that seems to surface on a regular basis.
Resolving the issue,rather than the fight, may be the key to rebuilding marital harmony and breaking the cycle of negativity in your marriage.
