"Instead of airing our differences in public, we have to realize we're the same family. And when you have a family squabble you don't get out on the sidewalk. If you do, everybody calls you uncouth, unrefined, uncivilized, savage. If you don't make it at home you, settle it at home; you get in the closet, argue it out behind closed doors, and when you come out on the street you pose a common front, a united front."
-Malcolm X