Hello Sandman, After 10 years of having zero dates I kinda wonder why I to find a woman to love? Im a visually impaired man and I spend my days making music, reading about sociology, biology, religion and, doing the household chores. I also love to dive so I got my license many years ago. Believe it or not I also like going to the s. I also have to care for my mother who is ill. As I went to a school for people with my type of disability, we learned very early on how to take care for ourself, we were taught to see the reality of our disability as a truth that we cannot change rather than a flaw. And so in our upbringing, our monitors taught us the reflex to look after each other from a very young age. We learned the reflex of asserting assistance to our blind friends without question or judgement of value, in order to render them assistance. You have to understand that theres a heavy emphasis on the word assistance here, this means: not taking control, not taking over, but assist them with words and pointers so that they can learn do stuff themselves. People who are completely blind are taught from a very young age to learn to handle guide dogs and now utilize smartphones as an important asset in giving them independence. Through the power of GPS these phones become the eyes and ears of the blind. However when I graduated from school I found myself in a world where modern women dont have that reflex to see us as people, they think about what the man can do for them and emotionally choke on the premise that a man can have flaws and still function correctly with some limitations, but this triggers their mother instinct and they dont want that in a man. They want a man who is perfect and if they see a man that is in any way impaired they start to feel superior and this causes them to access their mother brain to feel pity or contempt for such a man. They are willing to help such men out but that sort of behavior completely washes away any type of romantic feeling they can have for a guy. Even mothers of a few of the girls I knew from school were ively coaching them to not go with a blind man but to seek men that can look after you. So although in any way I am a modern man, because I can perfectly do the laundry like a woman can, and I could care for the children at home because I would be the stay at home dad. My experience is that traditional womens biology will cause them to have emotional conflicts with this premise and the woman will slowly start to resent me of not being a typical provider. On the other side, if I would date a feminist woman who DOES go to work and earn her own money and could contribute, she absolutely resents a guy that stays at home because for her that money she makes is not for the family but to have for herself. She will resent a man that earns less because it doesnt fit into her ideology which is ually and we come full circle a biological excuse to uphold some kind of role model. So either way im screwed over by female biology playing its part.\r
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1. michaeljung - happy mature couple having fun with wheelchair isolated on white background\r
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2. mangostock - Disabled man in wheelchair and girlfriend in the park\r
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3. viewapart - Happy Couple In Love Taking Selfie In Urban City Background - Disability Positive Concept\r
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4. Zentangle - Smart Man Pushing Wheelchair With Disabled Woman.\r
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5. starfotograf - lonely girl is sitting on a wheelchair on the street\r
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6. Elenarts - Handicapped persons love - 3D render\r
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7. buso23 - Full length portrait of a happy female pushing a man in wheelchair\r
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8. mangostock - Woman In Wheelchair With Red Roses\r
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9. Wavebreak Media Ltd - Happy woman in wheelchair with partner kneeling beside her smiling at camera in park\r
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10. grynold - Disableds in city\r
