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Are you worried that your man doesn't find you attractive anymore? Do you find yourself looking for different ways to turn him on like you used to? In this video, Relationship Coach and YourTango Expert LiYana Silver dishes the secret of what men are most attracted to in a woman. Contrary to popular belief, physical attraction isn't the only aspect that goes into keeping his attention. It's still possible to recapture that initial spark from the day you first fell for him.
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Hi, this is Liyana Silver with Ask An Expert, answering your love and relationship questions. Today’s question is:
Dear Liyana, I’m worried my partner doesn’t find me attractive anymore. What am I doing wrong and what can I do differently to turn it around?
Well first I wanna ask, do you feel attractive? Do you feel like your glowing? Do you feel sexy and sassy? Do you feel like you swallowed a thousand watt light bulb and its shining out your eyes and your pores? The number one thing that men find attractive, it is not bigger boobs, it’s not wander hair. This may come as a surprise. The number one thing that men find most attractive is a woman who’s comfortable in her own skin and with her own sexuality and sensuality. Quite an interesting response. So my remedy for this I call, the pleasure thermometer.
Like a thermometer would measure your body temperature the pleasure thermometer measures how much pleasure and enjoyment you’re having. Why pleasure? Because when you’re full of pleasure and enjoyment you glow! When you are full of pleasure you are comfortable in your own skin and you’re naturally comfortable with your own sexuality and sensuality. So here are three questions that you can ask that will invoke your pleasure thermometer. The first is, what is one area in your life that you can add in one pleasurable or enjoyable thing? It could be big or it could be a tiny thing. And then, for something that’s kind of a pain the butt area in your life, find one that you can just boot out.
Now of course there is going to be a couple areas that is going to be a pain in the butt that you can’t get out of your life. The question you ask there is: How can I make this more fun, more enjoyable and more pleasurable for myself? The recovery of your magnetic attraction of feeling like you glow, feeling like you are comfortable in your own skin. It does not have to take a degree in rocket science or allot of work. It just takes your pleasure thermometer. Connect with me at yourtango.com/experts/liyana
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