Ashish Dewan Toronto Lover : A Note for Parents
I, Ashish Dewan Toronto, have noticed that most of the parents often chide their children for not performing well in the examination and getting a position in the list of top 10 students of their class. But, I feel sorry for the children who are victimized for doing nothing wrong. After reading the last sentence, you may ask why the students are not responsible for their poor performance in their examinations. In this regard, I, Ashish Dewan Toronto, would like to say that students are not responsible for their poor performance in their exams but their parents are responsible for the same in most of the cases. What? Yes. Most of the parents don’t try to understand the psychology of their children. They don’t provide their children an environment in that he can grow in a healthy manner. They pressurize every time to study. They every time pressurize their children to show them outstanding report card. Do you think these things can help a student to get an impressive report card? If you ask for my opinion, I, Ashish Dewan Toronto, would say that a student can never perform in such a pressurizing situation.
Then, a question arises that what parents should do. I, Ashish Dewan Toronto, would say that parents should first of all try to befriend their children and try to understand the psychology of their children. Once they become the friend of their own children and understand him very well, they can start encouraging him to do what exactly they expect from him. For sure, this would work pretty well. The next thing that they should do is that they should create an environment in their house that should be healthy for overall growth of their children. Suppose, you are a parent and you keep up fighting with your spouse every time, would it be possible for your child to feel comfortable and think about his own growth? Of course, this environment would have a negative impact on the mind of your child and he would find himself unable to concentrate his mind either on study or anything else that can help him grow in his life. Besides, you should talk frequently to your child regarding what problem he has in his life or studies. The next thing you should do is that you should keep a check on your child. You must who are his friends. You must know how your child behaves in his school. You must check what your child does in the school or after the school when he is away from you.
Believe me if parents take care of these above mentioned things, there is no reason that their children would not perform outstandingly in their exams and would not bring good name for you.
Thanks
Ashish Dewan
