before i met you,
i had already done everything
for the first time
while we were together,
those very same firsts
i had done the first time with you
and now you're gone
and it's been so hard for me
to do those very same firsts
for the first time without you
Rev. Dr. A. Jacob Hassler
http://www.poemhunter.com/poem/very-same-firsts/
