I am waiting for you to disappear,
To enable me to miss you.
However...
I can not do that successfully,
If you are going to constantly remind me
You will be gone!
At least give me the opportunity,
To grieve your absence.
Give me at least five years,
To allow the beginning of any noticeable affect.
I will give you a call when that monitoring starts!
Lawrence S. Pertillar
http://www.poemhunter.com/poem/give-me-the-opportunity-to-grieve-your-absence/