Find the best financial services for you at: SMARTFINANCESOLUTIONS.NET - Advice please - so I don't go crazy? - My wife and I have been married for 9 years and have 3 year old twins. Over the years we had more than our fair share of major problems. These included major car accident, business failure, twins being born, major changes in income, bankruptcy, home repairs, etc....But during the marriage the biggest problem was my gambling. Over the years we would gamble together as fun and entertainment, but somewhere along the way I lost control. As we started experiencing problems I began to turn to gambling more and more as a solution. It did not work. Over and over again I kept going because I did not know how to fix the problems and ended up only making things a lot worse. It got to the point where she was begging me not to go and I would ask her how else I could fix things if I didn't go and she would tell me that if I went she would leave me. I would hurt her and go again anyways. I was very stupid and confused. One day she would tell me she would leave if I went -