Find the best financial services for you at: SMARTFINANCESOLUTIONS.NET - Not sure what I should do with my ex-boyfriend...really need advice!? - I'm going back in fourth on deciding if I should get back together with my ex boy/f. I was extremely physically attracted to him, and we had great chemistry which I never had with anyone else before. He was by my side while I was getting divorced, I leaned on him through the whole thing. He helped me find an apt when I moved out of my home. We go to the same church, enjoy the same activities, we just have fun together. He takes care of himself, is interested in nutrition and eating organically (like me), and truly knew me, sometimes better than I knew myself. He would always be the first to want to makeup after a fight. He liked to dance and go out, but also stay in and snuggle. He taught me how to communicate properly and talk things out. Sooo committed to me, through thick and thin. I don't think he would ever leave me. I felt like he was everything I was looking for.
However, mixed with these great qualities were some bad ones. A lot of things would irritate him easily. He was always worried about guys hitting on me when I went out with my friends. I often felt like I was never good enough for him. He said I didn't show enough appreciation when he would do things for me. I would always say thank you, but he wanted me to SHOW him my appreciation. I would try, but it would never measure up. He didn't fully trust me. He already filed bankruptcy once, and is again in debt but assures me he'll pay it off once he's down with nursing school in 2 years. We argued a lot. He also was violent with me on some occasions. That it the main reason I left him. He is now in anger management classes, and is having group counseling with other anger management counselors. He's attending church regularly, and says he's finally found a relationship with God. He leaves me voicemail's just sobbing, saying how sorry he is and he can't believe he let his future wife slip away. He says it took something major like this to happen for him to really see what he lost. We've been broken up almost a month. One minute I'm the worst thing that ever happened to him, and the next he's balling his eyes out missing me. He can be the nicest, coolest, sweetest, most fun guy in the world. But he can also be the most mean, manipulative, and controlling guy in the world.
Do you think after we have some time apart and he goes to anger management classes, I should give him another try, or just move on? -
